Archive for January, 2009

21
Jan
09

perspective

One of the reasons I love going to study at Starbucks, besides not feeling cooped up in my own house, is that you get to people watch. I love coming up with my own stories about where people are going, who they are meeting, what they are doing. You get to see people you might never have seen, or even known existed. Every time you go (even if it’s to the same place) you always see different people, and see different stories unfolding before your eyes.

Today was no exception. I decided that since I got out of class really early today, I’d get some homework done before heading home. I ordered my chai, and settled in for the long haul… I knew I was going to be there for several hours. I’d read a little bit, watch a few people, coming and going, passing by, getting on and off the buses. I was reading some articles I was given to read for one of my classes. The assignment was to read these articles, then write a one-page response to each. When I got to the last one, all I remember thinking is ‘I’m glad this one is short…’ It was an excerpt from a book called ‘Occam’s Razor.’ It was a short four-page excerpt about the low point in W. Eugene Smith’s life, where he thought he had nothing left to live for, no love, no work, solely emptiness.

As I about halfway through reading the article, the man sitting at the table next to me leaned over and said, ‘Trying to get back into studying, huh? I’m sure the first few weeks of the semester are the hardest.’ I looked over to see a man drinking a cup of coffee wearing very thick glasses covered up with a large pair of sunglasses. We began talking, and I came to learn a little bit about this man. Years ago, he was a wealthy businessman, high on life. Though he has very little recollection of what actually happened, he was told that he had just purchased a new car and was taking it for a spin when he was hit by a train traveling about 70mph. He was in a coma for several months, and declared 100% brain dead. He was said to have a very slim chance of ever waking up, and if he did, he would be considered ‘retarded.’ He continued to tell me about his story and how when he did wake up, not only did he have just slight brain damage, he remembered his entire family. The worst, physically, was that he is now considered legally blind, though he can still see enough to get around most of the time. Through support and a lot of hard work, he is now living on his own. Through the experience, he was able to find God, and now is working in a church where he says he feels richly blessed. We talked for a few more minutes and then he was on his way.

After he left, I finished reading the article about Smith, and began writing my response. The following is from my response:

After reading the article of W. Eugene Smith, I felt inspired and oddly hopeful, which I’m sure was, in all actuality, the subject of the segment. To realize that everyone has a low point, including those who we admire for great works. I, as well, suffered a low point, although mine came much earlier in my lifetime than Smith’s. To think back on it now makes me grateful, more appreciative of my life, what I’ve been given. To know your future is impossible. To hope in your future is necessary. I’m often reminded of the things I would have missed out on, the greatness to which I aspire. Though I may never create an award winning story or image, it will not stop me from trying, reaching for my highest goals.
It seems to me as though Smith, though almost unwilling to say it aloud, had even a mustard seed of hope, or faith, if you will, for his future. Though he said he had nothing left, no love, no work, he hung on…for something. I believe he had hope; something, someone would come along to remind him why living was worth the effort.
I believe Smith used this hope to later tell his Minimata story. Without having had to cling to his last hope, to the unknown, he would not have been able to relate to the people of Japan; he would not have kept going at the first sign of trouble from the ‘company goons.’ Because he persevered through a dark time in his life, he, perhaps, felt a new desire, or a need to persevere through anything; to make their story known to the world.

As I finished writing my response, my thoughts went back to the man I had been talking with earlier. Was his life the same way? Did he look at his accident as his low point; where even though he and everyone around him thought his life was done, his true greatness was yet to come. Only now does he really feel that he is making a difference in other’s lives. He spoke of his ‘former life’ as though it doesn’t exist anymore. He told me that only now is he really living. I don’t think it was a conicidence that I was reading this article at the exact moment this man decided to talk to me. He spoke about how God used the accident to get his attention, to let him know he was living a worldly life of selfishness. Perhaps this was a small wake up call? Needless to say, I think I’ll continue to study at Starbucks.

16
Jan
09

i will follow you into the dark

Although it’s been a long, interesting week, I can’t say it hasn’t been exciting.

School is back in full swing, and I have to say: Having three weeks of was glorious, but I think I’ve forgotten how to do homework! I have another full load (5 classes), and, oddly enough, there will actually be a lot of reading and writing this quarter. I’m taking a photo design class that I’m absolutely looking forward to. I’m getting to work on a project I’ve been wanting to work on for quite some time now. I call it Urban Silence. More on that to come, though. Hopefully next week I’ll have some pictures posted from it.

It’s going to be a busy quarter but a good one, I think. I even got the instructor I wanted for portfolio! (And Amy, just because I know you’re dying to ask: I got Dobbs!!!)

Anyway, I just have to get through this weekend first. I’m almost done with my ‘busy’ season with work, and have to put in some extra hours this weekend. And a bunch of reading for school. After that, I think I’ll be able to fall into a rhythm and glide through the quarter.

For now, however, I have a book awaiting me. It’s called ‘Critisizing Photographs.’ Sounds delightful, doesn’t it?

Oh, and just in case you’re curious… I ran 3 miles today.

07
Jan
09

first 10 things learned in 2009

1. The day after New Years sales aren’t near as good as the day after Thanksgiving sales. Period.

2. If you are at your neighbors house to play board games and they ask you to help look for their lost keys, beware that there may, in fact, be a small bag of blow under the couch, and there may be someone staying with said neighbor that gets just a little too excited about said found blow. Take this as your cue to leave.

3. When waking up the morning after a day of gorgeous weather of 60 degrees or higher, don’t be surprised if it’s snowing. You still live in Colorado.

4. If you give your dog a rawhide bone when they haven’t had one in quite some time, and said dog is known to have a very, VERY sensitive stomach/digestive system, try not to be surprised when, the next day, you are cleaning up diarrhea all day because your dog cannot control herself. Also, if you do find yourself in this situation, Target actually sells doggie diapers. True story.

5. When you decided that since you have an entire week left of your break, you want to re-organize all three of your walk-in closest in your apartment, make sure you didn’t tell your boss that you’d work overtime that week since you didn’t have school.

6. Don’t forget to return your RedBox movies…even if it was 4 days before Christmas when you rented it. You don’t want to keep it – or pay $25 for it. It wasn’t that good anyway.

7. The sunsets are pretty, but so are the sunrises…when you actually see them. Getting up in the morning isn’t as bad as you thought it was, is it? Unless you’re dragging your butt to the gym every morning…

8. Go to the gym early in the morning. It makes your whole day better.

9. Don’t drink 4 1/2 oversized cups of strongly caffeinated coffee right before going to bed. Even if you do get to sleep, you have very strange dreams about individual beef wellingtons. They come alive at night, you know. That is, if you don’t eat them first.

10.  That cute shelf you thought would look good in your bathroom really does look cute.